Somewhere in the middle of her 10th year this year, Sadie turned into a 30 year old woman. It's like I split in half and she was the other half. It amazes me how much like me she is. We have a standing date to watch an hour of TV together, just the two of us, every Tuesday night and we giggle at the same time and the same words fly out of our mouths at the same time and she pretty much has learned how to mimic my every thought and move. The comments section of her report card says the same thing every year... "Sadie is an old soul" So old soul-ish in fact, that after a particularly hard day at school she flung her backpack and said, "UGH! I just wanna eat ice cream and listen to Adele!"
We spent the better part of this last year trying to get to the bottom of some endocrinology/health issues for Sadie. A couple of weeks ago she got the all clear from the doc and is feeling so much better than she did in the spring. We are grateful! It's hard to watch your kiddo feel bad on a daily basis!
We can hardly keep this child in books. She's devouring them one after another. We love a lot of the same books and it's so much fun to have conversations about A Wrinkle In Time and The Witch of Blackbird Pond.
I'm also finding that 10 is when the kids start to get angsty and dramatic. When I go visit at school it's like a hive of drama surrounding those 5th grade girls. I feel like I have to remind her daily that people are crazy, hormones suck and that people need forgiveness and grace and to ask for those things from others when she's been a weirdo as well. I've learned that due to the sucky nature of hormones that this phrase has to be repeated a lot because the hormones prevent it's absorption into the brain. For real. I'm also learning that the older my kids get the more I LOVE being around them. I think I'm definitely an older kid kind of mom.
Our neighbor moved some horses in to the field beside out house and so now Sadie spends the afternoons giving the horses carrots and petting them and making up scenarios where these are her own horses and she runs a barn. There's just something about girls and horses. I love it. I could totally see her as a grown up sitting in the barn with a horse and a book and being the happiest woman alive after a long day of being a chemist or something.
She's currently obsessed with all things Robin Hood, archery, a clubhouse she's building in the woods and some computer game called Terraria that I can't even begin to understand. She started playing in the school band this year. She borrowed her GranMary's flute, but isn't quite sold on the band so far.
Who is this grown up looking kid and what did she do with my little girl????
I absolutely want to freeze Noah at this age for the rest of his life. Seven is my favorite. He's so smart it almost scares me. And yet- he is still just the perfect little boy age. He is such a mama's boy. He needs at least a half hour of uninterrupted snuggle time each day. Full on melt into you snuggle time. Physical touch is his love language and so when the weather is nice, we get our snuggles in on the hammock. He loves to talk about all kind of things- mostly places he wants to travel and animals. Those are his two big things right now. He reads his animal encyclopedia religiously and jumps for joy when the Jr. National Geographic arrives in the mail every month. Like his daddy, he studies maps and atlases and says things like ,"I'm pretty sure I'd enjoy visiting New York very soon."
Like all the other 7 year old I know, he loves Minecraft and could probably spend all day in some sort of virtual world building things if we let him. He and his big sister are also glued to the Food Network these days. Chopped, Cutthroat Kitchen and The Pioneer Woman are riveting entertainment for them. He's barreling through the Magic Tree House series of books and wants to be a scientist for Halloween.
We went to an amusement park this summer and Noah wanted to ride every roller coaster. To be so timid about so many things, he sure does have an adrenaline junkie streak in him. Lucky for him, his BFF, Grace, moved down the street at the beginning of the summer and he and Grace have pretty much worn a path through the asphalt going back and forth. Noah spends a lot of time on the trampoline and was the first one of the kids to figure out how to do a flip and a cartwheel. He was super proud.
There are just a million times a week where Kamron and I look at each other and smile at how cute Noah is at this stage. It's like he's trapped in the middle of being little and being a big kid and it's awesome to watch him do big kid stuff but still be sweet and loving like a little kid. He reminds me a lot to slow down and try to enjoy things with his constant, "Can you sit down for a little bit so I can get in your lap" cuteness.
He got a haircut and lost an upstairs tooth and turned into a grown man in the span of about 15 minutes.
Scarlett has only been speaking English for two years now, but this child writes like a dream. Writing is her Thing. (And oh my gosh- for a writer mama it's soooooo exciting!) Writing for her is not only an outlet but also how she's working to build connections. Sometimes talking to people and coming up with the right things to say in the moment are really hard. But with writing she can take her time and plan and she creates some of the most beautiful stories. She also shows love through her writing. It's really hard for her to tell us that she loves us or how she's feeling, but she writes it all down and presents it to us with the biggest grin on her face. It's beautiful.
When Noah had a bad day, Scarlett went out in the driveway and collected some rocks she thought he would like and wrote him a little note to cheer him up. Precious.
Scarlett is loving the routine of school. Some kids really thrive on routine and she's one of them. She needs to know what's going to happen every minute of every day- so the act of going to school is fantastic! She's beginning to realize that she's going to be here for the long haul and so she's starting to make some great friends and has even gotten invited to a birthday party or two. She and Miles continue to be partners in crime and the love that those two have for each other is fierce.
The main thing she's into right now is playing school. The biggest desire of her heart is to be a teacher. She will make a fabulous teacher. She lines up her dolls in front of the whiteboard (or Miles if she can make him sit still long enough) and she does less than, greater than or equal to math problems over and over and over. She's made a behavior chart like the one she does at school for her dolls and sometimes I find "notes home from Ms. Terry" to the doll's parents about how the dolls were mean to each other or didn't finish their work. Sometimes the dolls are good and she rewards them with extra recess. She likes having total control over her classroom and her own little dream world to escape to.
Scarlett needed our dog in her life. She wasn't super big on animals but our dog is now her best buddy. She talks to Maggie constantly and they are so good together. I can just watch her relax and see her worries melt away when she's with our dog.
** People often see "our story" and think that it's very unicorn-y and that Scarlett just fell into our family after a disruption and all was perfect after that. I just wanted to say a quick word. This is not true. Long ago, I decided that her privacy on these matters was super important to us. Her issues (though they are plentiful as one would expect) are not for the world to judge right now. So in the space we've carved out on social media, we are making a choice to share the successes and the joy. I know that's not real life. But in her unique situation with multiple families involved, it just felt like the right thing to do to protect the privacy of all involved.***
We celebrated Scarlett being in our family for one whole year by going on a family ropes/obstacle course adventure.
Oh, Miles. Still the comic relief and spark in our family. He's always been the happy-go-lucky-go-with-the-flow kid but lately he's starting to show some real passion towards things... mainly football. Child is obsessed. Every night he's begging daddy to throw the ball with him. He got a notebook and he and daddy wrote out plays and he goes out daily and practices running his routes. He can run so fast. He's been able to beat all the rest of us at running since he was four. So now at 6, he smokes us. And muscles? Oh my word. Muscles for days. We aren't quite sure what happened but one morning he work up and he was covered in muscles that he is soooooooo proud of. I think they popped up because he's never been still for one second in his life so all of life is a constant work out for him.
Muscle confidence? Check!
One of the biggest things for Miles in recent months is that he was discharged from the special ed program at school. Y'all, this was huge! Miles started early intervention when he first got home almost 5 years ago. Then when he turned three he went into the public school system and started getting services there. Started at the bottom 7% across all areas of testing that the school put him through. And now? NOW HE'S ALL CAUGHT UP! He still asks question like "how long are we going to be on vacation?" And I'll say, "one week". And then he'll say, "Oh, okay. So a day?" Just whatever. He's reading and writing a little and trying so hard! We are so proud!